ContractsCounsel Logo

Legal Separation Without a Lawyer

Updated: March 28, 2023
Clients Rate Lawyers on our Platform 4.9/5 Stars
based on 10,584 reviews
No Upfront Payment Required, Pay Only If You Hire.
Home Blog Legal Separation Without a Lawyer

Jump to Section

A legal separation without a lawyer allows couples to live apart while being legally married to address issues such as financial and parenting responsibilities.

Many states in the United States allow married couples to file for a legal separation without a lawyer if they choose to live apart as distinct entities. So if you decide to live apart from your partner, there will be a comprehensive contract specifying how the distribution of assets and other monetary aspects would work. And many couples frequently choose legal separation rather than divorce for ethical, financial, or religious reasons or as a test period before deciding to file for divorce.

How to File a Legal Separation Without an Attorney?

With one significant exception, a legal separation achieves the same results as a divorce in many states in the USA. And the couple is still officially married after separation and cannot get remarried. In general, a legal separation can resolve concerns with alimony, child support, custody, visiting rights, and the distribution of assets, debt, and property. The parties will become independent legal entities after a formal separation.

However, a spouse and children may continue to be covered by a working spouse's healthcare program and are still eligible for some military benefits because they are not divorced. Legal separation petitions are filed using the same process as divorce petitions.

Hence if you wish to file a legal separation without a lawyer, you must put together a petition informing the court of your desire for a formal divorce from your marriage. Additionally, you must write a summons that will be delivered to your spouse, informing them that the separation process has begun.

And when planning to register for a legal separation without an attorney's help, you can typically find forms for a formal separation from your state's tribunal. Much larger state courts now feature self-help sections on their websites that include blank forms for frequent cases like legal separations. The tribunal websites may also feature a self-help area where you may pick up or examine sample forms. Another option is to pay a fee to one of the many online businesses selling people legal separation forms. Although the additional paperwork needed in your state may differ, it will often follow the same guidelines as a divorce case.

Also, remember that a judge cannot give you anything you did not request in the initial petition for legal separation. So make sure you have addressed all your request in the legal separation by doing a thorough study and petition preparation.

Moreover, when you and your partner decide upfront what you want to happen regarding child custody, visitation, child and spousal maintenance, and what should happen to the marital home, the entire process will be much simpler.

How to File for Legal Separation?

  • Verify the residency requirements in your state.

    You must first fulfill the federal requirements of your state. The residency requirements apply for both lawful and legal separation, and you must check your state's divorce laws to learn more about the residency requirements.

    For instance, if at least one of you or your partner resides in California, a married couple may file for legal separation. Moreover, similar to civil partnerships, both partners in a domestic partnership may file for judicial separation even if they do not reside in California as long as the domestic relationship remains in force.

  • Prepare to submit a separation petition.

    After meeting the residency criteria, you will submit a legal separation petition to the court using online resources (like your state government's website) or filing by contacting the court registrar. Also, remember that while you must pay roughly $435 for registering your formal separation paperwork, this fee might differ.

  • File a separation agreement as soon as possible.

    File a separation agreement as soon as possible You must submit your legal divorce agreement with your petition for judicial separation. Make sure the agreement addresses everything, including rules and guidelines for dating other people, which may be regarded as adultery in some states, as well as child custody, child support, home visits, and spousal support. It should also address how marital assets (like a house or any vehicles you bought together) might get distributed.

  • Serve the separation agreement on your partner.

    Once you have submitted your application for legal separation, you must serve your partner if you and your spouse are not filing for legal separation jointly. In addition, your partner will have a set amount of time (generally 30 days) to reply to your petition for a legal separation, just like a divorce.

  • Resolve any open issues.

    Your spouse has the right to file a counter-petition if they disagree with the clauses in the petition. If this is carried out and you cannot settle collaborative law or mediation, you will have to go to a judge to resolve the matters you were unable to agree on. And a legal separation can occasionally be just as challenging as a divorce.

  • Notarize and sign the contract.

    If your husband agrees with the terms of the petition, all that is required is for both of you to sign the agreement and have it notarized so that the court official can enter it into the court records for review by a judge.

    However, remember that whatever you do before the court approves the separation agreement could change how things turn out, especially if it involves custody or personal property. A judge can consider that someone who vacates their residence may have abandoned the partnership and given up the ability to seek ownership or custody later.

Meet some lawyers on our platform

Bryan B.

259 projects on CC
CC verified
View Profile

Forest H.

199 projects on CC
CC verified
View Profile

Scott S.

61 projects on CC
CC verified
View Profile

Danny J.

7 projects on CC
CC verified
View Profile

What is Legal Separation and How Does It Differ from Divorce?

The legal separation agreement is a legal document that specifies the provisions related to child custody, child support, the division of marital property and debts, and spousal maintenance (also known as alimony in the event of divorce).

In addition, the main distinction between a divorce and a legal separation is that divorce marks the official dissolution of your marriage. Your union as husband and wife has ended, and you're free to wed again or continue to live your life on your own.

However, your marriage to one another is still valid even after legal separation. You must keep indicating on the paperwork that you are married and remarrying is prohibited. Moreover, you are still permitted to inherit property from one another. Unless it can be shown otherwise, a child born to a married woman is officially the child of the other spouse.

Legal separation or divorce is frequently a matter of personal preference. Given that some people's religious or personal convictions forbid divorce, legal separation enables them to maintain their marriage while still being able to lead independent lives.

Key Terms

  • Annulment: The nullification of marriage in lawful proceedings in which the wedding is said null and void as though it never happened.
  • Mediation: An alternative to the tribunal procedure, mediation is performed by a third party to assist parties in reaching an understanding of problems between them. A negotiator will not recommend or inflict a compromise but rather promote mutual understanding.
  • Affidavit: A documented statement of evidence that must either be sworn on a sacred text or proved true.
  • Discovery: A lawful proceeding's data exchange process, including proposals for documents and accepting affidavits.

Conclusion

Different legal separations come in different forms. For instance, a trial separation is an informal split during which you live apart to decide whether you want to separate or get divorced. And when facing difficulties in their marriage, many couples act this way.

And while there is no requirement for a court order for anyone to separate at any moment for whatever duration they choose, it is better to consult our expert attorneys at Contracts Counsel for a seamless and amicable separation.

Need help with a Separation Agreement?

Create a free project posting

Meet some of our Lawyers

Samuel R. on ContractsCounsel
View Samuel
5.0 (41)
Member Since:
October 2, 2021

Samuel R.

Attorney
Free Consultation
Phoenix - Arizona
5 Yrs Experience
Licensed in AZ, PA, UT
Widener University Delaware Law School

My career interests are to practice Transactional Corporate Law, including Business Start Up, and Mergers and Acquisitions, as well as Real Estate Law, Estate Planning Law, Tax, and Intellectual Property Law. I am currently licensed in Arizona, Pennsylvania and Utah, after having moved to Phoenix from Philadelphia in September 2019. I currently serve as General Counsel for a bioengineering company. I handle everything from their Mergers & Acquisitions, Private Placement Memorandums, and Corporate Structures to Intellectual Property Assignments, to Employment Law and Beach of Contract settlements. Responsibilities include writing and executing agreements, drafting court pleadings, court appearances, mergers and acquisitions, transactional documents, managing expert specialized legal counsel, legal research and anticipating unique legal issues that could impact the Company. Conducted an acquisition of an entire line of intellectual property from a competitor. In regards to other clients, I am primarily focused on transactional law for clients in a variety of industries including, but not limited to, real estate investment, property management, and e-commerce. Work is primarily centered around entity formation and corporate structure, corporate governance agreements, PPMs, opportunity zone tax incentives, and all kinds of business to business agreements. I have also recently gained experience with Estate Planning law, drafting numerous Estate Planning documents for people such as Wills, Powers of Attorney, Healthcare Directives, and Trusts. I was selected to the 2024 Super Lawyers Southwest Rising Stars list. Each year no more than 2.5% of the attorneys in Arizona and New Mexico are selected to the Rising Stars. I am looking to further gain legal experience in these fields of law as well as expand my legal experience assisting business start ups, mergers and acquisitions and also trademark registration and licensing.

Jane C. on ContractsCounsel
View Jane
4.9 (82)
Member Since:
October 9, 2020

Jane C.

Attorney
Free Consultation
New York
19 Yrs Experience
Licensed in CT, DC, NY
Pace University School of Law

Skilled in the details of complex corporate transactions, I have 15 years experience working with entrepreneurs and businesses to plan and grow for the future. Clients trust me because of the practical guided advice I provide. No deal is too small or complex for me to handle.

Vicki P. on ContractsCounsel
View Vicki
5.0 (4)
Member Since:
June 30, 2023

Vicki P.

Attorney
Free Consultation
Danville, Pennsylvania
25 Yrs Experience
Licensed in PA, WI
Regent University School of Law

Vicki graduated from Regent University School of Law in Virginia Beach, Virginia in 1996. She is a licensed attorney. She has been admitted to Wisconsin since 1998 and Pennsylvania since 1999.

Lauren W. on ContractsCounsel
View Lauren
5.0 (7)
Member Since:
December 15, 2022

Lauren W.

Attorney
Free Consultation
New Port Richey, Florida
3 Yrs Experience
Licensed in FL
Western Michigan University Cooley Law School,

Accident and injury attorney. Prior to going to law school I was a paralegal for 12+ years primarily in personal injury. I also worked for a local school district as the Risk Manager and a Buyer in Procurement where I facilitated solicitations and managed all the contracts for the district.

David C. on ContractsCounsel
View David
Member Since:
December 6, 2022
Adjckwc B. on ContractsCounsel
View Adjckwc
Member Since:
December 27, 2022

Adjckwc B.

Founder
Free Consultation
New York
7 Yrs Experience
Licensed in NY
Florida A&M College of Law

A. Browne Esq. is an entertainment, intellectual property, and business lawyer. Her goal is always to provide the best legal representation for your creative endeavors, both tangible and intangible. Always know that the best way to deal with legal issues is to take measures to avoid them. Learn how to protect your creative work at a law firm that’s passionate about ensuring that creatives own their stuff.

Find the best lawyer for your project

Browse Lawyers Now

Need help with a Separation Agreement?

Create a free project posting
CONTRACT LAWYERS BY TOP CITIES
See All Transactional Lawyers
other helpful articles

Quick, user friendly and one of the better ways I've come across to get ahold of lawyers willing to take new clients.

View Trustpilot Review

Contracts Counsel was incredibly helpful and easy to use. I submitted a project for a lawyer's help within a day I had received over 6 proposals from qualified lawyers. I submitted a bid that works best for my business and we went forward with the project.

View Trustpilot Review

I never knew how difficult it was to obtain representation or a lawyer, and ContractsCounsel was EXACTLY the type of service I was hoping for when I was in a pinch. Working with their service was efficient, effective and made me feel in control. Thank you so much and should I ever need attorney services down the road, I'll certainly be a repeat customer.

View Trustpilot Review

I got 5 bids within 24h of posting my project. I choose the person who provided the most detailed and relevant intro letter, highlighting their experience relevant to my project. I am very satisfied with the outcome and quality of the two agreements that were produced, they actually far exceed my expectations.

View Trustpilot Review

Need help with a Separation Agreement?

Create a free project posting

Want to speak to someone?

Get in touch below and we will schedule a time to connect!

Request a call

Find lawyers and attorneys by city