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You can create your own will. However, having an attorney draft it for you will ensure that your wishes are carried out in all circumstances. Doing it yourself without having any experience may cause many problems after your demise.

A power of attorney does not take away the decision-making authority of the principal. It appoints someone to act on behalf of the principal as provided in the document, but not to the exclusion of the person granting the power. If your mother granted power of attorney to you it allows you to act on her behalf, but she can also still act on her own. If she wants to revoke the power of attorney she can do so at any time, but given her diagnosis that may not be wise. It's likely the document will be needed again at some point in the future. The only proceeding that removes decision-making ability is a guardianship, which is done in the Probate Court (this is different than a power of attorney). Hope that helps!

If you die without a will your assets will be distributed to your heirs pursuant to the intestacy statute for your state. However, if you use a will, you can control who gets your assets and can give assets to non-blood related persons who wouldn't otherwise be an heir.

You can certainly go ahead and fill out simple forms to complete some easy estate planning documents like wills, but for more complicated documents like a trust (which is required if you want to avoid probate) it can get a little trickier. Further, anyone can fill in the blanks, but an experienced attorney will be able to explain what the document does and how it meets your wishes best. Hope this helps.

A power of attorney (POA) is only effective while the person who created it (the “principal”) is alive. Once the principal dies, the POA automatically ends. That means you cannot use your husband’s POA now that he has passed, and any authority you may have had under a POA he gave you is no longer valid. The law is uniform on this point across all U.S. states. After death, the legal authority to handle someone’s affairs shifts to the executor named in their will or, if no will exists, to an administrator appointed by the probate court. As the surviving spouse, you typically have priority to be appointed as administrator if your husband left no will. This is the process by which debts, taxes, and distributions of property are handled. Why You Should Still Consider a Power of Attorney Although you don’t need a POA for your husband, you may want to create one for yourself while you’re mentally capable. This is an important part of estate planning and ensures that if you ever become incapacitated, someone you trust can step in seamlessly. There are two key types of POA most people establish: 1. Durable Financial Power of Attorney: Authorizes your agent (sometimes called attorney-in-fact) to manage financial matters—paying bills, handling banking, managing property—if you can’t. It’s “durable” because it remains valid even if you lose capacity. 2. Healthcare Power of Attorney (or Healthcare Proxy): Authorizes your agent to make medical decisions if you’re unable to speak for yourself. Most people also prepare a living will/advance directive alongside a healthcare POA. This document sets out your specific wishes for end-of-life treatment so your agent isn’t left guessing. Choosing the Right Agent The choice of agent is vital. This person will hold significant authority, and you should only appoint someone you trust completely. Common choices include an adult child, a close family member, or a trusted friend. In more complex cases, some people name a professional fiduciary or financial institution. When deciding, weigh these factors: • Trustworthiness and integrity: They’ll be in a position to make decisions that directly affect your finances or health. • Financial responsibility: Especially relevant if they’ll be handling your money. • Willingness and availability: Make sure the person accepts the responsibility in advance. • Location: It’s not a strict requirement, but someone nearby can often act more quickly when urgent matters arise. It’s also wise to name a successor agent in case your first choice is unable or unwilling to serve. Immediate Steps After Losing a Spouse Separate from your own planning, you’ll likely need to address your husband’s estate. If he had a will, the executor named there should take the lead. If there’s no will, you can apply to probate court to be appointed administrator. Alongside that, you may need to update your own estate planning documents, review and change beneficiary designations, and notify Social Security, banks, and insurance companies. An estate attorney can guide you through both the probate process and setting up your own documents. The attorneys here on Contracts Counsel would be happy to assist you.